Families
and school days, to Vancouver, to England, and
Back
Birth
I was
born 6 April 1944, in Northampton England, to Geoffrey Norfolk and
Clarice Margaret Norfolk (nee
Gale).

Mum &
Dad’s wedding
W.W. II was
nearing its end. My father and two of his brothers, Alan and Howard,
served in the R.A.F. A
fourth brother, Ken, had been recruited to the Ministry of Home
Security. My mother, trained as a Domestic Science teacher, was in
charge of emergency food distribution for the city.
Two
brothers, Alan and Howard, were both shot down - Alan (born 1912)
flying a Beaufighter over the North Sea in 1940, and Howard (born
1917) in 1942 over Holland, piloting a Halifax bomber returning from
a mission. I have visited Howard and his crew’s well-maintained row
of tombstones at the site of their crash landing in
Holland
Uncle Ken had a
baby boy born just before me, who was christened Alan Howard
Norfolk, and I was christened Howard Alan Norfolk, in memory of our
two uncles who made the supreme sacrifice for
England.
Some earlier
family history:
Our
families had prospered before the War and in late-Victorian
times:
The
Norfolks
Great-great grandfather John
Norfolk was mayor of Deptford, London in late-Victorian times. A 10 foot high portrait of
him was displayed in City Hall until the ‘70s. Brother Robert was
offered this painting but turned it down since he had nowhere to put
it. He has recently attempted to locate it again.
In1894
my great-grandfather Thomas Norfolk established a brewery in
Deptford, London - Thomas Norfolk & Sons Ltd. He sold it to the
Dartford Brewery in 1904, together with 55 public houses, for a
reputed £1.5 million.
A
family dispute cut my grandfather out of Thomas’ will, but my
grandfather did well by owning the Regal Theatre in Northampton
during the peak period of popularity of cinemas. He bought property,
and a family anecdote says that he once bought a row of ten
townhouses without even looking at them! Unfortunately the value of
rental properties dropped with the post-war Labour government’s rent
control policies. The properties cost more to maintain than the rent
that was paid, and my grandmother did not get much when they were
sold.

Dad in his
prime
The
Gales
Our
grandpa W.H. Gale was one of six. The others were Wilf, Dorothy,
Elsie, Jack, and Herbert Anthony Gale, who died of wounds at Aix in
1918. He was awarded the Military Cross, and bar. (There was also a
girl who died in infancy - Clarice Hilda).
W.
H.’s father was John Gale (there are still some John Gales in the
family). John Gale was
born 12 January 1863, in Calne, Wiltshire. His father was Stephen
Gale, married to Jane, nee Hazell. John Gale married Amelia
Minns on 3 June 1884 in the Baptist church at Frome. W.H. was born
24 May 1885 at 16 Gloucester Road Trowbridge (family home). John
Gale was mayor of Calne three times, and was on town council, a
magistrate and an alderman.

The
Gales. W.H. great
grandma, Dora.
Grandpa
W.H. Gale married Dora Worgan June 30 1911 at Painswick Church.
He was living and working in Bradford on Avon then, and both our
mothers were born there. He died 13 October 1951. He was a
Freemason, and was Master of his Lodge for some time. He fought
throughout the Great War and was at Passchendale, the Somme, Ypres,
and even saw the “Angel
of Mons.”

Grandfather’s
unit WW1
John
Gale was a clothing designer and tailor and "made" our grandpa go
into the business - I think he had wanted to be a pharmacist or some
such - very suitable I should have thought for his exacting
character. They designed custom clothes for both men and ladies, and
had workshops
employing
about twenty people who actually made their creations. Army officers
from the many nearby army bases were also regular
customers.
Our
mothers were both privately educated at the well-known St. Mary’s
School for Girls, in Calne.

Mum in lacrosse
gear
Grandpa spent a lot of time in these greenhouses.
The stables/garage are through the door on the right,
and looming
behind is the Harris pork factory.

29
Church Street in 2000. Grandpa’s double shop front is now two
establishments.
The stable/garage door is on the right.
Moving,
and schooldays
My
father, whose career aims had been disrupted by the war, became a
Certified Accountant and eventually company secretary of a large
fruit importing company based in Central
London.
Our new
family moved to a house in the City of Leicester for a short time,
and then around 1950 to a suburb of Watford,
Herts.
I
passed my ‘11 plus’ tests and attended Watford Grammar School for
Boys.

Myself, age
11
In 1957 our family made its
final move, to a nice house in the small town of Burgess Hill,
Sussex. Burgess Hill is
on the London-to-Brighton railway line, which was convenient for our
father who had a one-hour commute to his job in central London, and
for Robert and I, who had a ten-mile train commute to attend the
Brighton, Hove and Sussex Grammar School for
Boys.

17 Park Road in the
‘60s. When I visited in 2000 the paint and Virginia creeper had been
stripped prior to repainting.

Playing
bridge
My
school days were uneventful. I passed the exams. One term at age 16,
I came first in my class in both English and maths. My Report Card
said I didn’t deserve the maths result. In fact I was not the least
interested in maths – but I swotted up the easy formulas used at
that level, and simply applied them. I was not attracted to team
sports and did not participate. I founded the school Angling Society
instead. More about fishing later…

Mum and Dad in the
‘60s
I got
my first experiences of overseas travel in this period. About 1956
Dad drove the family through France in our Rover car to Lloret de
Mar on the Costa Brava, Spain. This was before the days of package
air tours. We had some adventures on the way! I also went on a school trip
to Paris, and by invitation from my Dutch girl pen friend in
Holland, visited my uncle Howard’s gravestone
there.

As a
lawyer
After
leaving school in 1962 I thought I wanted to be a lawyer, to be
trained by the articled clerk system. A lawyer in Brighton took me
on as a probationer for six months. I found the law to be very dull,
with all man-made theories and nothing “real.”
I did
not like it at all.
University of
Leicester
So I
snapped up a place at Leicester University when it was offered. (In
those days university education in England was generously funded by
the state. Tuition was free, and a grant system, based on one’s
parents’ income, provided sufficient money for living expenses. Each
place had about twenty applicants competing for it, but we all made
about four or five applications. You couldn’t just pay money and
attend, except in certain cases).
I
graduated with a B.A. Special Degree in the Social Sciences
(2nd Class Hons.).
This had involved courses in Geography, Geology, Economic
History, Politics, and Social Sciences. As customary in England, it
was a three-year course. In my third year I specialised in
Geography.
I was
Chairman of the Economic History Society, and Secretary of the
Conservative Association, in connection with which I went to a
couple of conferences and helped at elections. I’m not so sure my
politics are quite so right-wing now!
I was
also university representative for AISEC, an international student
job exchange programme. Companies in other countries offered jobs
for our students in exchange for jobs for their students. This
position made me a de facto member of the Student’s Union
Council.
An
aside - Our Student Entertainment Committee was particularly on the
ball. They booked up-and-coming groups before they became famous,
and one was the Rolling Stones. The Stones honoured their contract
even though they by now had two hit records, and appeared at our
Saturday night ‘Hop’ one night in Spring 1964, playing on our
makeshift 4 foot stage in the cafeteria. Most of us just stood
around the stage in awe - including me. I stood about six feet from
Mick Jagger. The Beatles were also booked, but found a way to back
out of their contract.
I took
advantage of AISEC and went as far as I could in Europe – Istanbul,
Turkey. Another student signed up for Turkey, and we travelled by
special low-fare students’ train across the whole of Europe. The
‘job’ was a nominal office job for one month, but we were paid. My
friend left after his month was up, but I stayed for an extra month,
looking around Istanbul and its environs.
Turkey
was so exotic that it became my ‘favourite country.’ For our graduation
dissertation, Geography specialists had to study some aspect of a
place, and write a report. Most students wrote about their own home
town (although one went to the US), but I went back to Turkey, again
c/o AISEC.
After
the one month ‘job’ I travelled throughout Turkey with Hassan Tumer,
the son of the family we had lodged with the year before. We went by
ship along the Black Sea coast, on to the eastern city of Erzerum,
and zigzagged back by
bus and train, seeing the whole country. Hassan had an aunt who
lived in Kirkpinar, an agricultural village near Istanbul, so we
went to stay there for a couple of weeks. I investigated the
village’s life and economy and wrote my
dissertation.
I had
financed these trips each year by staying in Leicester for a month
to work night shift in a bakery. Official hours were 6 p.m. to 2.30
a.m., but to put in maximum hours I hung around helping the foreman
until the day shift arrived at 8:00.

Graduation Day, June
1966
A
hitchhike around Europe
After
university I had a plan – take a year off and travel around the
World. The original idea was to emigrate to Canada first, work and
travel there for six months, then across the Pacific to Australia
and back home through Asia. My best friend, John Smith, decided to
come with me.
We were
accepted by Canada Immigration but were told the papers wouldn’t
arrive for six weeks, so we decided to spend that time travelling in
Europe. In fact the papers came through within a week - before we
left - but we still did our trip.
We
travelled for two months throughout Europe the way many students did
back then, the cheap
way - hitchhiking, Youth Hostels, tent, cooking our own food.
We
explored many cities, including Antwerp, Brussels, Cologne, Bonn,
Frankfurt, Stuttgart, Munich, Saltzburg, Vienna, Zagreb, Dubrovnik,
Belgrade, Skopje, Thessalonika, Athens, Corinth. We spent a week
resting on the island of Corfu, and then ferried across to Italy,
and up through Naples, Rome, Florence, Venice, Milan. In Milan we split up – John
headed across to Bilbao in Spain where his father was working as a
consultant engineer biulding a blast furnace, and I headed home.
Finances were tight. I had only thirty shillings ($4.50 at the time)
to hitchhike 450 miles to the Ostend Ferry! But I was very lucky to
be picked up by a German doctor who was heading to Cologne. He drove me for two days and
paid for food and accommodation on the way, so I made it
home.
I
noticed later in Canada that not many young Canadians were aware of
how cheaply Europe could be seen. They thought rented cars and
hotels were the way. So I wrote and self-published a booklet
Cheapest Europe for Student Travellers. I didn’t promote it much,
but some were sold by
mail order from ads in student papers, and one university bought ten
copies.
To
Toronto
John
and I sailed to Canada on the S.S. Franconia. It was a stormy
voyage. We disembarked in Montreal on 9th November 1966, each with
about two hundred pounds in our pockets, and first went to Kingston
to look for jobs. We were advised to go to Toronto and were lucky
enough to get Christmas sales jobs at Simpsons Department
Store. For New
Year’s we took a bus to New York to visit a
friend of mine from university. His apartment overlooked Central
Park.. We met Frederick R. Koch, the art connoisseur, who took us to
lunch at the Harvard Club. I kept up a correspondence with Fred for
some time, and met him for lunch a couple of times when we were both
in London.
It was
hard to find good work, but eventually I found a union job as a
welder’s helper at $3/hr., and John did commission sales jobs. We
each bought a car, and spent the summer exploring Ontario - Niagara
Falls, fishing trips - mostly in John’s Volvo.
We
hadn’t saved enough to go on to Australia (our plan), but didn’t
want to face another cold Ontario winter, so we decided to head for
Vancouver.
To
Vancouver
We left in October 1967. We didn’t take the direct
route across Canada. We took the long way….
Expo 67
was still on, so first we headed east through Ottawa to Montreal and
visited Expo. We then turned south through New England to Boston. We
by-passed New York because we had already been there, and went on to
Philadelphia, Baltimore, and Washington D.C.
When we
reached Washington on October 21, we found ourselves amidst 70,000
demonstrators taking part in the first of what was to become huge
bi-annual anti-Vietnam War demonstrations. We had no idea it was
going to take place, although as we drove towards Washington the
atmosphere had seemed very strange and tense. At the Pentagon we saw
hippies putting flowers in the guns of the guarding soldiers, and we
attended the speech by Dr.Benjamin Spock at the Reflecting Pool. We
saw the Washington and Lincoln Memorials, but were disappointed that
the Smithsonian Museum was closed and we could only view the White
House and the Pentagon from a distance!!
Finally
we turned west towards Vancouver, and visited Charleston,
Cincinnati, St. Louis, Kansas City, Topeka and Wichita. We were particularly keen to
see the old cowboy towns from the movies and comics, so Dodge City
was a highlight.
From
Salt Lake City we turned northwards to Vancouver, taking the Boise,
Spokane route.
We took
John’s Volvo car on this trip, since the seats folded down to make a
sleeping platform. We slept mostly in the car, using motels
occasionally to clean up and rest properly. Our plan was to average
400 miles/day. Having visited a city, we would drive as far as we
could towards the next one that evening. Waking early, we would
usually arrive at the next city with a day to visit all the
sights….then on towards the next.
Vancouver
We arrived
in Vancouver in November, and rented an apartment in Kitsilano. It
had a view of Kits Beach. We immediately took a liking to Vancouver,
for its beauty and scenery. But jobs are hard to find in winter in
Vancouver, since many young Canadians migrate there for the warm
weather, and this was the ‘60s – the hippie
era.
We ran out
of money by Christmas. We lived on baked beans and toast with no
butter. Our Christmas dinner that year was the nuts and fruit on the
table of some girls we visited! We didn’t have a dime for a paper or
for a phone call, so a couple of times we walked two miles to the
public library and its free newspapers, then begged to use the
library phone! No jobs though. We were too proud to write home for
money and admit we were failures.
In early
January, John had the idea of knocking on doors asking for odd jobs.
He went to West Vancouver, a wealthy residential suburb. The first
day he swept leaves. Finally we had a way to make money! I went
along the second day and we were asked to clean windows. The
customer gave us some Windex and paper towels, and we assumed this
was how pros cleaned windows. So we bought our own Windex and paper
towels and knocked on doors telling people we were window cleaners. We were soon told that pros
use ammonia and special brass squeegees, so we bought these. Our
initial investment in business was $3.50.
January was
hard going with several snowstorms that interrupted our work.
Sometimes our water froze on the outsides of the windows before we
could squeegee it off! But we soon built up a window cleaning (and
later grass-cutting) round, with repeat customers. We regularly made
about $4/hour, which was good money in those days (beer was
$1.60/case, cigarettes $2.10/carton, gasoline 23c/gallon, 3 course
restaurant meal $1 or less, coffee 10c, rent $90/month, nice house
$18,000).
At
first we did not own a ladder, but relied on the customer having one
. If they didn’t have a ladder we canvassed the neighbours for one
we could borrow. In April, a customer asked if we could paint his
house for $4/hour. We had no idea how to paint a house, so we read
books about it. We were far too thorough and slow however, so he
fired us. But we started telling our window cleaning customers we
were also painters, and successfully painted some houses. We put up
our rate to $5/hour.
Every
weekend we drove out of town and explored ‘Beautiful B.C.’,
particularly its rivers and lakes, since we were both very keen on
fishing.
In
October a customer offered us jobs as surveyors’ helpers at a
proposed new ski resort (Brohm Ridge). We moved to Brackendale (50
miles north of Vancouver). I didn’t like this work, so carried on
window cleaning, commuting every day back to West
Vancouver.
I wanted to
return to England by Christmas, so we advertised our window cleaning
business, and sold it for
$1000!
John stayed
on in Brackendale, and I flew home. John returned in April, looking
very sun-tanned.

With
John Smith at Vancouver Airport
Back in England
After
an interesting sojourn in Canada, it was time to start a career. I
thought I would try the travel business, and immediately got a
well-paid (£2500 p.a.) position as Manager of the Costa Brava
Administration Section at Clarksons Holidays, in London.. I had a
secretary and eight staff. I commuted to London with Dad for a
while, then rented an apartment in Bromley.
Clarksons was a pioneer
of package tours to Europe and was growing very rapidly, doubling
every year.
One
benefit of the job was that if there was an empty seat on a plane,
employees could fly free for an ‘inspection visit’. I took advantage
of this and made half a dozen trips to different Mediterranean
resorts.
For my
‘real holiday’ a friend and I went somewhere Clarksons didn’t go -
Morocco. We flew to Gibraltar, ferried to Tangier, visited Rabat,
Casablanca, and Fez, and explored the High Atlas Mountains by
donkey.
But two
years of commuting and sitting in an office in Central London was
enough for me. I yearned for the scenery and wide open spaces of
British Columbia! I quit Clarksons. (And by coincidence Clarksons
went bankrupt soon after. They over-extended themselves by investing
in their own fleet of planes, which proved
uneconomical).
I went back
to Vancouver in spring 1970. John, meanwhile, was living in the
Seychelle Islands. His father had some property there and he had
gone to inspect it. He liked the Seychelles so he got some kind of
office job there and was thinking of settling
down.
Drive – New York to British
Columbia
Someone had
told me about the “Auto Drive-away” system in the US, where one is
given a car to deliver to an address, and the only cost to the
driver is fuel and oil. I decided to drive across the US again using
this system, and it worked.
I flew to
New York and was given a Volkswagen to drive to Atlanta. In Atlanta
I was given an air-conditioned top-of-the-line Ford Mustang to drive
to Portland Oregon! The
only condition was that I couldn’t enter
Nevada.
I
decided to take the southern route - through New Orleans, Dallas,
Houston, San Antonio, El Paso, Phoenix, San Diego, Los Angeles, San
Francisco.
I
didn’t mind driving on my own. I met people along the way including
hitch hikers (less risky then), saw many interesting places (such as
the Kennedy assassination site), and had some interesting
experiences (such as being invited to a catfish BBQ on the
Mississippi).
I
dropped the car off in Portland, and caught a bus to
Vancouver.
Back in
Vancouver
I had to
make an income while looking for a career, so contacted some of our
old painting customers to say that I was back, and started painting
again.
I
checked out the travel business, but found it undeveloped at that
time in Vancouver – just lots of small travel bureaux. A
customer/friend was a big wheel in insurance, and offered to get me
into that, but it sounded boring so I didn’t follow up.
When
John heard I was back in Vancouver he decided the Seychelles were
not perhaps for him, and decided to return to Vancouver too. He
arrived a couple of months later and we were business partners
again. After a few months he brought his girlfriend Susan over from
England. They decided to move to Victoria, a beautiful city on
Vancouver Island, in Spring 1971. They were married in Victoria on
29 April 1972, and I was Best Man.
At
some point in this period I thought that Australia might be a better
bet, so I actually bought a plane ticket there. I had arranged a
week’s stopover in Hawaii and during that time I chickened out,
cashed in my ticket, and went back to Vancouver! At least I saw
Hawaii.
Work
So John
Smith and I had been partners again for about a year, advertising
ourselves as ‘student painters’. We were self-taught and learned all
the tricks of the trade from scratch, since neither of us had ever
worked for another painter. Business was good, and we were earning
more money than any of our friends who had regular jobs.
After
John left for Victoria I took on an assistant and began to build up
my own business. Eventually I had about eight employees in summer,
and less in winter. It was not a high prestige business to be in,
but one way or another it suited me:
-
I was the absolute boss, inspectors or anyone else to report to.
- We
worked outside in the summer and inside in the winter.
-
I did not
have to wear a suit or go to the same office or shop every day – we
moved around to different locations constantly.
-
I was free
to arrange my time however I liked (for a while I tried a 4 day
week). I was not committed to regular hours. I could take holidays
or days off whenever I wished. (I took four to six weeeks off at
Christmas time in order to travel). I could switch my company’s long
weekends to a different date when the weather was better or the
roads would not be so crowded.
-
It was a
challenge to organise
jobs in the most efficient way.
-
I enjoyed
meeting the customers, and advising them about colours and
design.
-
I enjoyed
relating to my employees. I paid them generously and reliably, so I
got the best and they remained loyal. Many of them stayed with me
for years at a stretch..
-
Overhead
was low, and there were lots of tax write-offs (office in home,
storage, vehicles, etc.)
I did it
just for the money, so that I could pursue my many other interests.
The money was good, steady, and quite adequate for my needs. My
policy was to charge for labour double what it cost me. So minus
some expenses, my income in summer was the equivalent of the total
of the wages of up to seven skilled tradesmen, and in the less busy
winter season, that of two or three, plus the work I did myself at
full rates. I had no office or secretary to pay for, and recently
calculated that recently my fixed overhead (generously calculated
for tax purposes) was only $840/month – less than a day’s
work..
I didn’t
make a quick fortune, or attempt to. Naturally I sometimes thought I
should be doing something else and had a few ideas over the years,
but nothing I considered seemed so good, or it would have required
more commitment than I wanted to give.
We did not do new
construction, with all its mess and dirt (and interfering builders,
architects and designers) but concentrated on high quality
residential and some commercial work, dealing directly with the
clients. We worked entirely on the prosperous North Shore of
Vancouver and met lots of interesting people – entertainers, TV and
radio personalities, hockey and football players, authors,
well-known businessmen, and others not so famous but still
interesting in their own right.
We
did a few commercial contracts. We were the painters of choice for
the City of North Vancouver, and painted City Hall, the Library, the
Police Station, the Fire Hall, the Museum, the Social Centre, the
Works Yard, and other buildings they owned.
An
interesting job was the very ornate interior of the Freemason’s
Lodge, a four storey building built in the ‘20s and not much changed
since then. A few secrets in there – hidden strings that make things
move, boxes with skeletons……
I
would like to thank the following employees in particular, for their
long service and good work: Derek B., Scott B., Dan C., Clayton C.,
Paul F., Chad K., Steve L., Chris P., Jim M., Dan P., Norm R.,
Orville S., Dan S.,
Jeff S., and most especially Clint M., who has taken over the
business, with help from his wife Tammie. Tammie has helped me with
my medical care, I don’t know what I would do without
her

Company
golf tournament, 1999

Company
golf tournament, 2000
Deaths
of Parents
My mother
died, after battling breast cancer, on 10 August 1970.
Father
died, of a brain hemorrhage, on 20 May
1972.